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Foolishness,
Exhaustion and Unfriendly Administrators
by Dr. Anahid Kassabian
published for U-WIRE* Feb. 26, 2001
*U-Wire
member papers have full permission to reprint all or part of this
column. Enjoy!
This Week:
How
do I get a cheating charge off my transcript?
Can
I possibly balance school and a full-time job?
My
school's disabled-students department is ignoring me. How do I get
through?
(questions
may have been edited for length, grammar and/or to maintain the sender's
privacy.)
Dear Professor K:
I
am a student at a top university with solid GPA and MCAT scores.
I am very involved in extracurriculars and have won numerous awards
for my research. However, I cheated on an exam and was caught. My
transcript says that I have violated academic integrity. I have
continued to deny that I cheated. This is my only violation of any
kind. If I admit, the violation stays and I gain nothing. What should
I do?
Oy. What were
you thinking? What could possibly be so important that it was worth
risking your future on? I'll give you whatever advice I can, but
first, I have to say that I have little patience for cheaters.
I'm afraid
you're going to have to eat the penalty, unless you really didn't
cheat. There's no point in staging an appeal just for the record.
As far as your file goes, you should work really hard on a penitent
letter that is sincere in its apology for your bad judgement.
As for med
schools, I really can't predict. I suspect you made a life choice
the day you cheated on that exam. As an admissions file reader,
I probably would not vote to accept a student who had cheated.
However, if
you write a really eloquent declaration that you violated every
principle you hold dear, and an explanation of what anxieties possessed
you in that moment and how much you have learned from your mistake,
and how much better a doctor you will be for your misstep into human
frailty, perhaps someone will believe you. But you'd better be sure
that *you* believe what you're saying, or no one else will.
And whatever
you do, don't compound your cheating with lying about it. If there's
a way out, it's only through honestly owning up to what you've done.
I
started my 1st semester of grad school while working full-time at
my first job. I took three classes and had to take W's at the last
second because I couldn't handle the load along with my new job.
I missed registering for spring semester and now I think the soonest
I can take classes is in the summer term. I need to go back to school.
I know I can handle the work, but my job seems to sap my energy
and I don't know if I can do it and work. Any advice?
This is not
an uncommon experience. The shift from undergrad to grad is traumatic
for many of us, not unlike the shift from high school to college.
Expectations are much higher, and understanding and sympathy in
many ways lower. And while many grad programs accommodate working
students, others do not.
So here's
my advice:
- Spend the
rest of the spring putting your life in order. Make sure you develop
systems to spend the least amount of time possible on life functions.
Learn to make food and put it in the freezer so you don't have
to choose between cooking (too time consuming) and eating out
(too expensive and unhealthy). Develop a bill paying system that
takes minimal time, whether it's one evening a month or one hour
a week.
- Choose one
class for summer that you're *really* interested in and committed
to. Use that course to develop routines and skills. And don't
take more than one class until you're sure you're ready to handle
the workload.
- If it's
at all financially possible, work less. I'm sure you would have
thought of this, but just in case...
The trick
to studying and working at the same time is to be as systematic
as possible. The more you organize yourself, the more you can accomplish
in your limited time.
Let me know
how you do!
I
am currently enrolled as a first-year student at law school. I have
been trying to get in contact with the advisor for students with
disabilities for over a month and half. I have called and left many
voice messages; today, I finally got in touch via e-mail and received
a four-word response - no signature. I feel my needs have been neglected
and I am extremely upset. What is your advice?
Indeed, your
needs are being neglected. I would recommend that you take several
steps, all simultaneously, to signal to the school's administration
that you mean business.
- Send a certified
letter, with cc's to the Dean of Students and the EO Officer,
detailing your attempts to contact the student service office
and outlining your specific needs and requests. List the accommodations
you had as an undergraduate, and remember to mention the ADA and
any state laws you know of.
- Ask any
professionals you have contact with (lawyer, vocational counselor,
organization) if you can cc them too.
- Make an
appointment with the EO Officer or Ombudsperson right away. Discuss
the matter with this person. Bring the student handbook, admissions
materials, and copies of the laws.
This should
show everyone that you're serious, a perfect candidate for studying
the law, and very knowledgeable about your rights and their responsibilities.
Write me back
and let me know what happens! I bet they respond pretty quickly...
Dr.
Anahid Kassabian is a professor of communication and media studies
at Fordham University in New York.
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